Dating in Austin, Texas (TX): Resource Guide for 2019

Interested in dating in Austin? Austin, Texas, is known as a hub for art, great food and fun times and it’s really unlike any other city in Texas. The city’s motto is that it’s the “Live Music Capital of the World” and with so many great music venues that’s not an understatement. It’s no wonder that the yearly South by Southwest Festival (SXSW) takes place in Austin. BBQ lovers flock to Austin for its great food, too.

Austin has also been named the nation’s best city for dating according to a survey by Patch, which polled renters and asked them about their dating experiences across the country. With so many reasons to fall in love with the city, it’s not surprising that people looking for love fall in love there, too.

Best Austin Dating Sites

For Singles:

MatchMatch is a great resource for singles in Austin. Given the city’s reputation as a dating-friendly city there are lots of people signed up to use Match and that means you’ll have lots of profiles to view and ultimately choose from.

Since Match is a trusted dating site, there are more locals on the site looking for fellow locals, and Match’s robust platform will connect you to people who share similar interests and allow you to explore at your own pace. The free site will let you search the profiles but you’ll need a paid membership to communicate with anyone you want to meet.

As a dating site, Match is one of the best services available because of the ability to upgrade to a paid account and find people who are serious about making connections. There is limited access to the site via the free version of the service, so if you’re serious it’s best to use the paid site to find people. Match offers monthly, 3-month and 6-month package deals with discounts available for the 3 and 6-month packages.

For Professionals: Elite Singles

elitesingles reviewWhile Austin is known for its eclectic mindset it’s also the center of a great deal of tech and startups, in addition to restaurant owners, musicians and other individuals looking to find romance. Elite Singles is a great option for dating in Austin, especially if you’re looking for someone who not only matches to your interests but to your educational background as well.

Elite Singles is a great resource for people looking for serious matches, including CEOs and other titans of industry. They use a proprietary formula to match people to 3-7 matches each day, which means you can’t search openly on your own and must wait for the site to send matches each day. However, these matches tend to be college educated (this is a selling point for the site) with a slightly older clientele than the rest of the dating sites, usually in their 30s and older, and so this site is perfect for mature business professionals.

Elite Singles offers a free service with limited resources, and different levels of paid membership that offer more perks like unlimited communication.

For Seniors over Age 50: OurTime

our time in austinOurTime is a great resource for mature relationship seekers, and Austin is home to many people over 50 who have either lived there for the entirety of their lives or who moved to Austin to retire. Since Austin is home to such a great music scene, many seniors enjoy listening to the live music and enjoying the restaurants and local attractions. Our Time is the perfect way for Austin seniors to find people who share their interests and help them make a connection.

OurTime offers an upgraded service that offers unlimited email and messaging between matches with packages ranging from one to six months.

For the LGBTQ Community

All of the top dating sites offer the ability to search for gay and lesbian matches, with Match being the most LGBTQ friendly thanks to the site’s easy to use interface. The ability to search listings and instantly connect (through a paid membership) helps to circumvent the lengthy process of waiting to be connected to people who match your profile.

Austin’s gay and lesbian community comes together every August for the city’s vibrant Pride Festival. The LGBTQ community is active all year round with many events for community members, and you’ll find that Match offers a very large number of LGBTQ profiles.

For Hookups: Adult Friend Finder

Austin is a very nontraditional city with a very open mind, and so it’s not surprising to know that there are lots of people who aren’t looking for romance and long-term relationships. They’re looking for a hookup. With these things in mind, Adult Friend Finder is a great place to find someone to hook up with for a night or weekend.

For locals, AFF offers plenty of people looking to have some fun with no strings attached. Adult Friend Finder has a free platform, but the upgraded version of the site comes with more profiles and more options to communicate with people who catch your eye.

Best Dating Apps in Austin

All of the major dating sites offer their services through an app, which is free to download and use, and it can be connected to your paid account. Both Match and Zoosk are great dating apps, as both offer the ability to search profiles and connect with people directly and that’s much easier on a smartphone than navigating questionnaires and surveys in order to meet people.

Tinder is also a popular app in Austin, which is the home of the University of Texas. While some college students turn to Match and Zoosk, the trend is that Tinder definitely appeals to a younger crowd.

Best Dating Bars for Singles in Austin

With so many amazing bars and restaurants in Austin it’s hard to narrow down the best locations to meet singles in town.  We picked three of the most buzz-worthy spots to meet attractive Austin singles, but quite frankly you don’t have to go far because there are local hot spots all over town.


Whisler’s features a seasonal array of custom cocktails and traditional favorites for your enjoyment. There are cozy corners and giant community tables depending on your mood, and there’s even a photo booth where you can post with your new friends. 

Nickel City

Nickel City is a local hotspot that tends to be pretty relaxed during the day and full of frenetic energy once the sun goes down. Because it’s a local spot, it’s not big on frills but the food is good and the drinks are amazing, and there is an endless supply of people to chat with in the evenings when the bar is full. You’re all but guaranteed to meet people here.

Native Bar and Kitchen

Native Bar and Kitchen is located inside the Native Hostel, an “experiential hostel” that boasts a diverse clientele. It’s the perfect place for people in their 20s and 30s to meet people from a variety of backgrounds while also eating some of the most delicious food in town.

Speed Dating in Austin

The premiere speed dating resource in Austin is Let’s Get Cheeky, a speed dating and matchmaking firm that started in the UK and has brought its fun dating techniques to the States. They’re found in every major US city and they offer many events throughout the week for all kinds of people looking for different kinds of dating experiences.

EventBrite offers a calendar of speed dating events across Austin each week and you’ll find that there are quite a few events planned at any given time. The events are open to everyone but some are geared toward specific groups. These are ideal for locals looking for a meaningful connection or for anyone looking to meet new people. Keep in mind, though, that most of these events do have fees attached to them.

Austin Dating Events & Clubs

Meetup offers a number of singles groups in Austin, and they all offer events within their respective groups that cater to that group’s interests. In fact, they have events almost every night!

As mentioned above in the Speed Dating section, EventBrite offers all kinds of dating events for a wide range of Austin residents. Between EventBrite and Meetup you’re bound to find something that suits your needs.

Dating Chat Rooms in Austin

Sometimes you just need someone to talk to, and possibly connect with, if the spark is there. Though they might be considered outdated, chat rooms are still popular with lots of people and there are quite a few in Austin that offer a wide swath of people to talk with. Some of the top dating chat rooms in Austin to check out are:

These are free services but be forewarned that it’s a mixed bag of people that you’ll find so be prepared to do some searching for people who meet your interests.

Personals in Austin

Like chat rooms, most of the personals sites in Austin are hookup sites, but some offer people who aren’t as familiar with the mainstream dating sites (or who don’t want to pay for them) and so they’re resorting to the most basic form of online dating. They also offer the ability to post free ads for other people to see.

Most personals feature very direct requests for hookups or encounters, so if you’re looking for a more substantive connection then Match or another paid service is really where you need to be.

Locanto and Book of Matches offer free personal ads with the ability to upgrade. There isn’t much offered by way of security because none of these are actual dating sites, and as a result they’re a mixed bag of serious inquiries and hookup requests.

Things to Know about Austin Dating

dating in austinAustin, a city of just under a million people, is a very vibrant and diverse city with just over 68% of the population listed as white and over 35% as Hispanic. Though the balance may not seem representative, the city celebrates its unique culture and many residents can be heard speaking Spanish and English in the same conversation.

Over half of the city’s residents consider themselves to be religious, with Catholic, Christians, Methodists and Baptists rounding out the top four religions in the city.

Austin is a very LGBTQ friendly city thanks to the fact that people in Austin are laid back and the city itself is quite unlike many of the other cities in Texas.

Wrap Up

If you’re looking for love in Austin, Texas, you’re all but guaranteed to find it in this charming city that has a mind of its own. The people in Austin are warm and friendly and if you’re sitting alone in a bar you’ll probably find that you won’t be alone for long.

Austin is a little slice of dating nirvana in the middle of Texas. Anyone looking for a meaningful relationship or even a quick liaison will find what they’re looking for in Austin.

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