Did you know that there are specific rules that need to be following when dating in Japan? These dating guides will help you especially if you are someone who is planning to visit a Japanese woman you met online, then knowing these guides will help. In this way, you won’t offend anyone while enjoying your time with her and her country.
A lot of western men are looking for Japanese women whom they can be with and eventually build a relationship with. The reason behind this is because of how beautiful Japanese women are. Going to Japan to meet your Japanese woman is like hitting two birds with one stone. This is because you will also be fascinated with Japan’s history, art, and culture.
But what are you going to do if you finally found a Japanese woman online that you can date? Your first thought would be to fly to Japan. This is a wrong thinking. The reason behind this is the first thing that you need to do is to plan and be aware of their culture. If this is your first time to visit Japan, then knowing some guides when dating in Japan would be best.
Create Good Plan
The first thing that you need to do is to create a good plan. If you want to have a good dating experience, then planning of time would be best. Japanese women like it when their man takes the first step when it comes to planning. They loved it when the man decided on where to go and what activities to do on that first date. Based on some Japanese women, men in Japan are quite indecisive, non-committal, and lazy. So ensuring that everything is well planned to your first date would be nice.
If she is going to go out with you after work, then it would be nice to choose a restaurant near her workplace. In this way, she won’t have to travel longer, which can be a hassle for her. If you are going out on the weekend, then bringing her away from the city would be best. You may opt to go to a zoo or an aquarium. These places will give both of you plenty of time to walk around and walk.
Give Some Silence
As you all know, Japanese women are shy, especially on the first date. So don’t be surprised if you not that she’s not talking too much. Some men, especially westerners, think that women who are quiet are not interested in them. But this is not always the case. The reason behind this is because Japanese women prefer the sound of silence. So you don’t have to worry if she’s acting too quiet. You can always start the conversation if you want. But don’t feel discouraged is she wants to just enjoy the place’s view for a little while.
Learn The Japanese Language
Another thing that you can do is to try to learn the Japanese language at least. You can do this before your trip. There are tons of Japanese dictionaries that you can purchase. All you have to do is to have some time to learn the language. I am not saying that you need to perfect it. You just need to learn a few phrases, for you to be able to communicate with her. The reason behind this is because some Japanese women can only speak little to no English and this can cause problems. Also, learning the Japanese language will make her at ease on the date.
Avoid Bringing Her To Your Place
During the first date, western men are used to taking women on the first date at home. Since you are visiting Japan, you will be staying at a hotel. It would be best to avoid taking her to your hotel or even ask her if she wants to go up to your room. It would be best just to bring her home and spend the night away from each other. Japanese women are quite conservative and asking her if she wants to go to the hotel won’t be a great idea. You might not be able to get a second date with her.
Of course, after a few dates or if she asks if she can go to your hotel, then that would be fine. But only if you are comfortable with that idea.
One of the unique things about Japanese culture is that majority of women there love giving gifts to men that they like. This is most especially common during Valentines Day. So don’t be surprised if your date gives you a gift. It can be a material gift or chocolate, so either way, it would be best to accept it. Of course, you may also give her something if you want to. One thing that you need to remember is that the quality and the price of the chocolate will give you a definite clue on how your date is feeling about you.
No Public Signs of Affection
You may notice how Japanese women will be reluctant to kiss, hug, or hold your hands in public. These things can be normal for other races, but it’s different in Japan. They don’t like showing displays of affections at the beginning of a relationship, especially during the first date. But don’t worry because once she gets comfortable with you, she won’t hesitate to hold hands with you. You will also get to see the desire, passion, and love that are all buried in her nervous and shy exterior.
These are all of the guides when dating in Japan, especially if it is your first time. Follow the tips mentioned above, and you will surely have a lovely time with her and the beautiful country of Japan. Just don’t forget to learn a few Japanese phrases, so you and your Japanese date to be able to communicate comfortably.