Romance Scams offers Support, Education, and Healing For All Who Find Their Way Here
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Scammers will pose under the disguise of beautiful pictures as either male or female claiming to be from the United States. The Scammer weaves a story of a successful business person working over seas, having no family; they present themselves as a thoughtful, caring and loving individual who is looking for their soul mate. The scammers are good at what they do; they ask lots of questions of the victim regarding what they want in their lives. The Scammer then takes the information and turns it into a dream that becomes a reality to the victim.
Profiles on dating sites can be attractive, informative, interesting and the biggest misconception individuals have are what you see in the profile are true facts. Scammer profiles can be difficult to spot unless you know what red flags to look for. Users have an ideal person they are looking for whether it's an attractive individual, common interest, common geographic location, friends and hobbies.
Scammers can be cleaver with their words, usually the text of the message is cut and pasted or they can be sloppy in their text as the email below shows. The email is an example of “Scammer grammar” the misspelled words, and the short abbreviations of words.
Example Scammer First Contact Email
I would really love to know as much as i can about you.
Well i think i have to tell you more about myself.I'm
mixed,dad from Belgium while mum from USA. I was born
and grew up in Belgium before i move to the states.Im
an civil engineerwell am in Nigeria now working on a
contract but i will going back to the statessoon.
I dont have children, though i was married but i lost
my wife on a car accidnt I also attach couple of my
photos on this email i hope you like them.I would also
want you to send me some photos I really like your
profile and it was nice.I have never done this before also.
Have a nice and great day. Hope to hear from you soon
Profile Inconsistencies
This list is not in anyway complete as the scammers come up with more “stories or lies” on a daily basis.
Occupation
Steps to Take
After being scammed you are put on a “contact” list by the scammers. You will be receiving random instant messages and emails from people you do not know. These are scammers trying to scam you again. Please tell them you know they are a Scammer and block them. You will know within 5 minutes if it’s a Scammer by looking at the profile, how they write/speak, their picture, they state they live in Nigeria, they confess their love in the first meeting, they claim God brought you to them etc. After you keep blocking them, they will stop and you will be placed on a “NO” contact list.